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It’s easy these days to get caught up with trying to do too much. You strive for that promotion, so you bring your workload home or work on the weekends. You justify a higher salary equals a happier family by providing more, yet the time spent with loved ones is reduce to a minimal of seeing each other only when you wake up and go to bed.
The problem is everyone believes they will live to be over 100 years old. No one likes to think that tomorrow may never come, and yet our last moments here on earth could be any minute. There is nothing wrong with wanting the best for your family, but the “best” isn’t the material things they want, it’s your time. No one ever says on their last dying moments that they wished for more time at work. Of course not, it’s more time with family yet we continue to live as we do. Remember to keep the Ohana First

Hello Everyone, or should I say as we do in Kona, Hawaii….ALOOOHA! First of all, I would like to thank you for even reading this. And yes, I was born and raised there all my life, so I definitely know a thing or two about the Aloha Spirit. However, life wasn’t always filled with Aloha. Especially after high school, when I joined the military and got stationed, of all the places…New Jersey. Not that Jersey was a terrible place, but because I devoted most of my time to become “successful”.

Days were filled with working in the mornings and college at nights. After what seemed like forever, I finally finished my degree. The sky was the limit and visions of a Fortune 500 company offering me a position with a high salary seemed all too appealing. Well, I did get a position…but not the high salary. Either way things seemed to be perfect. New job, got married, and expecting our first boy. Naturally I wanted whats best for my family, so I began working a lot more, bought a house(fixer-upper), and focused on more school to gain a competitive edge.

This is were the problem started. Not that working hard or getting an advanced degree is bad, but the time with my family, as well as myself, was “non-existent”. My life consisted only of working, eating, and sleeping. It was miserable and I felt like a zombie everyday. Something had to change. My health was deteriorating both physically and mentally due to a lack of sleep, daily grinds of work, and finances.

I actually began feeling sorry for myself believing everything would be fine if I could just win the lottery. That’s it! Win the lottery….what I’m thinking? Then one day while driving, my mind began to reminisce about Hawaii. Care free days heading towards the beach or mountain side with friends and family doing nothing but relaxing, “talking stories”, and just enjoying one’s company. So simple yet the perfect remedy after a long week.

Then it just hit me. Why am I practically killing myself working day in and day out? Sounds cliche, but life is too short to be feeling this way. I’ve wasted too many irreplaceable hours trying get more and more when I need to be using this short time on what’s most important, friends and family. No more! Never again will I put them in second place.

The first thing I did was head towards the beach. I forgot how peaceful and serene the ocean was. Focused on having fun with the family and not worried about anything else. Not on work, research papers, or bills, just living in the present. Next week was the same routine, then the next, then after that for about a month. Worked throughout the weekday, and weekends were for the beach or mountainside with loved ones.

It’s been a little over year since I made that commitment and never have I felt better. Life isn’t just good, but great. Its exactly what I…correction,WE all need. As a symbol of living a better balanced life, I’ve created Maukai. A blending of two Hawaiian words mauka(towards mountains) and makai(towards the ocean) to remind us that its not all about money or one’s social status, but the simple things in life.

Life is too short, start enjoying the things and people around you!